Love Writings: Is There Safety In Love?

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

Once of the biggest trends I have been seeing in love is the “Safety” factor, or more noticeably, the lack of safety, in love.

There are a couple of elements in play here as we analyze the truth in safety; whether you allow yourself the freedom to be safe in love, if you are truly attracting a partner that will allow you to feel safe and will your partner give you the freedom to be you.

All of these elements work together to define a relationship and give you an element of safety where you can thrive. The key is to first find yourself.

Many times people go into a relationship looking for their partner to somehow define them and then when they realize that it is not who they wish to be, trouble usually ensues.

Let me give you an example. I am not a racing fan. Sorry all you racing enthusiast out there, but it just isn’t my bag. Recently I have tuned into the local racing channel to watch various racing events, or as much as I could stand to watch them. It is like listening to another language as the commentators do their commentator thing and talk racing talk as the cars speed around the track.

It made me wonder, “Why don’t I like this? What is it about racing that doesn’t excite me?”

Then I related it to love. There are elements in love that you must come to terms with within yourself so you can find safety in your partner. If you feign an interest in racing and you really don’t get it, then you are allowing someone else to define you.

You see what I mean? There has to be some clear definition of who you are in love and then you have to have the patience to live in that vision of yourself and find a partner that rises to meet you.

One more thing about safety in love. Many will tell you that there is no sure thing, which is true, I suppose. But here is the defining moment where you know you have safety in love…when you quit wondering if you do. When you no longer are concerned about it, then you have reached a place of safety.

This is the point where most would say that it is not easy but, I say, it is easy. You just have to allow it to happen and have the faith to trust in the universe that you will find your way. That, my friend, is the journey worth taking.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.