Love Writings: Michael Jackson And The Regrets Of Love

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

One of my readers asked me if I was going to write about the death of Michael Jackson and, of course, like millions of others in the blogosphere, I will comment on it in light of what we are all about here at Love Writings.

Say what you will about Michael Jackson, and believe me, many have very strong emotions, the man was an entertainer. He was born into in and spent the majority of his life doing that which he loved. In the process, he truly entertained a generation in the process. Yes, he had his share of trials and tribulations, as do we all, but in the end, he was in the process of getting back to what he loved to do and what he knew best, entertaining.

So, what does that have to do with Love Writings? Everything!

I watched as I saw news reports of how some went to the stores and immediately started buying his albums, it made me shake my head. The day before, the shelves sat there full of Michael Jackson’s albums but then he dies and suddenly everyone cares and has to have his music.

This situation really can be brought home to love and let me explain how.

In relationships, as in life, it seems as if sometimes a near-tragedy can spark a resurgence of love in some way. It is as if the love needed to be reborn in light of the tragedy. Hollywood thrives on the impetus of that very story line. Something that is taken for granted is suddenly taken away or threatened and the characters regroup into what is really important in their relationships.

Why is it that we feel the need to have to be shaken to our foundations many times to be able to express ourselves? Men seem to be the worse about this sort of thing and it is always appalling to me that men can’t just express themselves in the moment. Hey, I get it. Looking like a wussy and all, but really? Do you want to live in regrets because someone says that because you are expressive in love you are less than a man?

I don’t think it so.

These moments are the ones we have, my friends. These are the seconds that count, not the ones that you may be planning in the future. Reunite with your relationship by looking within and allowing your inner muse to surface.

Speak Love and write love in the now and you will forever be changed. Don’t let your relationship be like the death of a pop star like Michael Jackson where you are left looking at past memorabilia of the relationship and wishing you could have it back. Be the agent of change within and you will change your life without. Like Michael Jackson’s song, “Man in the Mirror” says, “Gotta make a change, For once in my life, It’s gonna feel real good, Gonna make a difference, Gonna make it right.”

Really, could there be better lyrics? Oh yes…and Michael Jackson, he will be missed.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.