Love Writings: A Joyful Journey of Ahh-Ha

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

In the theatrical realm, there is a lot of preparation that goes into producing a play that you may enjoy from time-to-time. Everybody is probably aware of the actors rehearsal schedules and that stages have to get built but there is a period that must be breached in every production I have ever been involved in that always sets the tone for the show itself.

You see, theatre, as in a life of love, there comes that moment that I call a “Mind Meld” moment, thanks to my long time fascination with Star Trek and, of course Mr. Spock. This is the moment that the good actors become in unison with each other in a symbiotic way and they learn to depend on each other in that relationship in the context of the play (and usually extending off of the stage as well). But here is the joy of that relationship, it is a fluid relationship in that if an actor knows he has gotten him or herself in trouble, the others are there to bring them back and they know it. They depend on it but that dependency is never taken for granted.

Why am I telling you this?

Relationships must all have that “Mind Meld’ moment as well. For some, it comes rather quickly and for others in is a natural evolving presence that weaves itself into the relationship. Some, I am sorry to say, never let themselves experience that moment due to trust in their partner but more often than not, trust in themselves to let go and let love.

When you truly give yourself over to the experience of love, you can then begin to allow your inner muse, as I like to call it, to become a dominant force in your life.

But I have also seen this “Ahh-ha” moment, as some are prone to call it, become a moment that is not the release of love, but the withholding of that love.

What I mean is that instead of becoming a dynamic force between two lovers, the moment becomes one of complacency. Many times this complacency is then used as a kind of weapon in such a way as each partner expects the other to “Just do what they say” and it usually grows to become a spiteful weapon sometime in the future.

Many times, even that complacency turns to bitterness and one or both partners look outside the love union for satisfaction.

What Love Writings does is to turn that moment from one of an outside focus to a joyful, introspective look at the love they have in front of them.

I have seen a Love Writings focus turn hearts that were perceived as cold into souls full of boundless joy towards their partners. You see, when you begin to focus on that which is right and endearing in your soul’s delight, you see the beauty of a relationship born anew.

In the end, you can be the agent of change, but you must be willing to take the first step.

In the End, Love is All There is So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.

Love Writings: There is a Disturbance in the Force

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

In live, as in love, there are many a moment that can steer us from the great intentions of living in love and caring for our partner in a way that is consistent. Let me explain.

In a past post, I talked of having a daily love routine and that it is good to cultivate that as part of the relationship.

But here is what happens…Life gets in the way.

What I mean is that in a crisis of some kind or a time crunch, the now loving daily routine that may have been cultivated is thrown under the bus.

I recently have a situation that threatened to do just that as I, too, have a daily routine involving the pronouncement of love. I was ready to throw the routine aside for the situation that had to be dealt with, but as I showered, where often so much great inspiration comes from, I regrouped and said to myself, “No, the routine needs to be the same, the situation can be dealt with accordingly.”

Now granted, there are always moments of extreme duress that must be dealt with and that is expected, but for the most part, your daily love routine is as important as anything else and should not be expendable.

Living in those moments will far outlive any minor crisis that you may be willing to sacrifice for love.

So often in relationships, this is exactly what happens as I have seen it happen in my life. Life becomes the guiding force instead of allowing love to be so. When people often say, “We have grown apart” this is exactly what they mean. Life has stepped in and given the couple two different courses to take instead of them living for love, they live for life.

Life is but a collection of moments and love is the glue that holds those moments together. Believe me or not, it is your choice, but if you truly examine your life, you will know this to be true.

In the End, Love is All There is So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.