Love Writings: The Fun of Love

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

Love is fun…ALWAYS!

I know that statement will not serve many who look at love as “Work” and a chore of some kind that must be performed while in the midst of a relationship.

The trouble with this kind of thinking really does have many layers in which you must look at, usually going back to the way your family showed love to one another. I know this has been true for me.

I know that society and the media portrays a different element of love as having all of these aspects of Un-fun associated with it. Of course, the beginning stages are all about those moments of passion and joy that supposedly ground you for when things are, well…not so much fun.

Basically, that is crap and let me tell you why.

You see, when you are loving in such a way that you feel a truth in love with your partner, that person should always be the one you have the most fun with. Even though comics make jokes about the difference between men and women and that the fun aspect of the relationship cannot be found with your partner, it really is quite the opposite.

A friend told me of a relationship he had once that started out very passionately but as he spent more time with the girl, he realized that there was something just not right. There was this element of seriousness and Un-fun that he got when ever he spent time with her. Not that he didn’t like her as a person, but his spirit was crying out for a change. He finally had enough sense to break it off and recommit his life to finding someone that was always fun for his soul.

Society seems to want to tell us that, for some reason, that fun in a relationship is just not the norm. I mean, it is OK to have fun and all of that, but you surely cannot be in a constant state of fun every day. You have to be serious, mature and all that jazz.

Stop living your life by what a cynical society tells you and feel the expression of joy for your partner each and every moment. Live in the fun of this moment of love and you will be a changed person.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.

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