Love Writings: The Pinheads Are Messing Up Relationships

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

The other night I was flipping through channels and I happened across some pinhead conference about women and their role in society from an American perspective.

I say that this thing was run by a bunch of pinheads because the relationship aspect between men and women was completely devoid of love and, instead, the talk centered around what each did in the relationship and, essentially, who was in control or sought for more control.

What made it worse was the guy who was moderating it, a pointy-head intellectual who was trying to be as “Alan Alda” as possible.

For those who don’t know that reference, Alda, of course, was in the long-running hit series, M*A*S*H, where he was the super-sensitive man that all women wanted their men to be like. It truly ignited a real battle of the sexes. Unfortunately, in a battle, there is never really a winner is there, as there are usually casualties.

This is the purpose of Love Writings. We seek to diminish the battle and bring peace through love.

Back to the pinhead series on the women’s role stuff. Here is the major flaw in a organization or conference such as this. It seeks to do nothing except to make women, primarily, angry and men wanting to say “to hell with it” as they can not live up to some conference-decided values.

As I said, there was not talk of love and the essence of the truth in the beauty of love in a relationship. When you take that out and boil it down to what each does or doesn’t do in a relationship, then the relationship can never be fully functional.

As the Beatles said, “All you need is love” and boy, were they right.

in the next post we will change the way we are to look at love in the relationship and we shall take it away from the pinheads and bring it back to the realm of the spiritual as love becomes the focus of all we do.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.

Love Writings: The Ebb and Flow of A Daily Love

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

I watch The Biggest Loser every week as I write about it and so, I have more of a relationship than most when I watch the show.

This season, it seems as if the group are a bit more sentimental than seasons past as most seem to wear their hearts on their sleeves, as the old expression goes. For those unfamiliar with the expression, it means that they are a bit more expressive with their feelings and that goes for the guys and the gals.

In the current episode, and it seems as if hey do it ever season, the Losers, as I call them, go home to see their family after not being with them for at this point, over a month.

The trip home usually does one of two things; It makes them want to just stay home and abandon the weight loss, which they all desperately need to accomplish, or it gives them the motivation to complete the journey for their family. Ultimately, however, the journey is always for themselves and what is so great about the show is that most realize that in the end.

Much can be said foe the ebb and flow of a Daily Love Routine.

When I talk to people about establishing a Daily Love Routine, most of the time they look at it as something they are doing for their partner. As they begin to establish the routine and really flush out motives and the truth about love, they turn their focus inward and see that love is an inside job first and foremost. When you love you, the love that flows out of you is always much sweeter than a love based on some element of fear.

Face it, true love and fear in that love can never coincide together.

Think about that the next time you are doing something “out of love”. Are you fearful of not doing it somehow? If so, reexamine the love and know that love’s motives are always pure. It s the human element that seeks to corrupt that aspect of love.

A Daily Love Routine is always based on the love that flows from the inside out and when you do that, the love will be returned ten-fold.

What a journey of the heart we are all on.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.