Love Writings: The Beginning of Understanding – Finding the Words to Communicate

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

Talking about Love Writings is exhilarating to me as I realize what a sense of purpose it is to give the tools needed to those who truly endeavor to learn new and different ways to communicate to their partner.

Talking to your partner is so much more than the day-to-day relationship speak that we all must do to sustain a relationship but I have seen and talked to many couples that have become entrenched in that what I call “Day Talk.” This surface conversation becomes the foundation instead of what it is supposed to be, the talk that is built on the foundation of love talk.

Love talk is supposed to be your rock and it is a place that will anchor everything else in your relationship. Being so in tune with your partner that the “Day Talk” becomes an extension of the love talk.

These can be difficult concepts, I agree, especially if you believe yourself to be past the stage of providing a love talk foundation.

Think about any relationship you have had or are currently in; What was the beginning like? Unfortunately, many men do what they must to obtain their partner in the way of words and love writings and then they relax thinking the have done enough and their partner is then left wondering what they have done wrong.

So, where do you find the words to begin your journey of love talk and love speak?

You have to listen, to begin with, and you have to be wiling to begin to speak love. It may be unnatural at first, and this is to be expected, but you have to share your heart.

Let’s look at an example. You are listening to your partner, I mean really listening, and she mentions something about how she has had to run around to do something for the family, it could be with the kids. Normally, you might just blow it off or make some comment, but instead you might try this.

After she has talked about the situation and remained quiet for a second, gently touch her hand, pause and softly say how much it means to you that she does what she does and how grateful you are to her. Then lightly stroke her hand and lift it to your lips and give it a gentle kiss.

You see, you have not been fake or insincere but have shared a quiet moment and your heart. I can guarantee that your few words and gesture will be very endearing to your partner.

This has got to be sincere, above all else, and if you learn to be still and listen, you will be well on your way.

Just listen, focus and give your heart freely and your love words are sure to resonate in the heart of your partner.

In the End, Love is All There is So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.