Love Writings: Is There True Freedom In Love?

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

The other day I was talking to a friend about freedom and love. I began to wonder about the concept and if there really is freedom in love. In movies and in society we hear constant references to the aspect of freedom in the love relationship. The freedom expression in love is usually portrayed in derogatory ways.

You’ve all heard them. “The ball and chain”, “My old man”, “The old lady” and on it goes and there is nothing ever edifying in theses expressions…EVER. Even when people are about to get married, they always make a reference to “This being my last night of freedom.” So very sad. It is a wonder anyone even bothers if that is the feeling going into love in the first place.

There needs to be a new dialog concerning that whole situation of the beginning of marriage and of the love relationship. The fact is, is that there is more freedom in love then there could ever possibly be alone.

I know that there is going to be a lot of disagreement about that because if you are alone, you can do whatever you want, whenever you want to.  You can go anywhere, you can be messy or as clean as you want and no one can say anything to you.  You can see anybody talk to anybody.  You have no restrictions whatsoever.

That is what you call absolute freedom, there is no doubt.

But what if you are truly uncaring about anyone but yourself.  Are you really living in freedom?

I am of the mindset that when you are truly in a love relationship, you will have the total freedom to be who you really want to be.  Many tell me that they can’t fully love as they “Can’t lose my freedom so I can’t lose myself in love.”

But it is in the very losing of yourself, that you gain the most freedom.

The fact is that when love is truly a uniting between two souls, it is freedom personified.  When you can truly give to someone else everything that you are, you then experience the most liberating of freedom you could possibly imagine.

The question is, can you truly release yourself to that other person.

I know I have struggled with that myself.  But when I truly allowed myself to release love fully, with no restrictions and not really expecting to get anything back because I trusted so much in the relationship, that is when I did indeed find freedom. When I realized that the spirit of the one who gives love guided me to that relationship, I realized that I was truly free.

From that moment on, I became a changed man as can you. You have got to realize that to truly be a blessing to life, you have got to release yourself to the one that you love completely.  When you consciously make that decision, you have created a life of love.

Notice I said consciously make that decision.

You make the decision by releasing all of your pride. When you change your focus, you instinctively know that, in some way, by truly losing yourself, you know that you will veritably find yourself.

Love is there for you to have but you must be willing to give all first.  For in the end, the love that you give will be returned back to you tenfold, and that is a principal, a universal law of the universe.

Just release yourself to love.  No longer think of yourself as being in some type of prison in love, because if you do with the person you are with, you probably need to reevaluate that relationship.  There is no longer a ball and chain.  There is no longer an old lady or an old man.  There is only freedom and the beauty of love in your life.

Realize that and you will have more freedom than you could ever possibly imagine.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.