Love Writings: Don’t Make Me Open Up A Box Of Love On You Because I’ll Do It, I Swear

Loving Love Inspires the Heart to Create Words that Gives Love its Life.

Why is it that love is often treated like a box that we keep up on a shelf and, when it is appropriate, we drag it off the shelf and open it up. We then use it to either get what we want or take some aspect of our precious love that looks to be damaged and use it against our loved ones. Afterwards, we then box it back up and put it away until the next opportunity to show it off.

This whole idea that love is so definable is somewhat disturbing. Hey, I come from a place of awareness here as I have had that concept used on me. Love should never be used as a tool to get your partner to dance like in the old westerns where the crook would come into town and shoot at the feet of some poor hapless townsfolk to make him dance around.

You know, all this talk of unconditional love in a relationship is sometimes a hard road to travel on for some and I have found that it is almost expected that love is a give and take, which it is.

However, most use the give and take analogy a bit to literal.

Let me explain. You see, in love, there is an unconditional aspect that must be lived by each partner without question. The holding back on this unconditional feature will inevitably cause great consternation in the relationship especially if one partner perceives them as doing so more than the other.

Now, I base this premise on the idea that you are in a place in your relationship that you can truly say that this is the person you want to be with. Unconditional love is so often bantered around that I don’t think most truly understand the concept and our society certainly has trashed the very idea of an unconditional love by the way divorce is handled, but it is a beautiful place of existence if you find yourself there.

So, as I was saying, there is an unconditional love that must be lived by each partner and in that place of pure love, there exist only freedom to fully express love and all aspects of that love. In that place there is no fear of reprisal or hurts of the past that are shinny knifes ready to be wielded should the need arise.

But the tendency here, as I have stated, is to treat love like that box that you open when needed.

The truth of the mater is that in that place of unconditional love, the give and take that exist is so freeing in nature that you don’t perceive it as give and take but as an awareness of each others feelings of love for each other. The past hurts and feelings of insecurities melt away as you live in this place that few dare tread.

It is a journey for many but for some, it is a realization that it is a place to fully exist at all times. Make your own decision as to whether your box is dragged out or if you will live in that place of beauty at all times. The choice is yours and yours alone.

In the End, Love is All There is, So Let Your Words be Your Beginning.